My mom's father, Grandpa Frank, passed away on July 3rd. We saw him last in March, 2013, when Hazel was about 11 months old. He gave us house buying advice this spring when we were still looking for a house, hopefully he would approve of our choice! Grandpa Frank had been doing poorly off and on for a while, but it was so unexpected to have him gone so suddenly. He left behind a community in Red Hook very grateful for all of his work on the school board, his work with the Red Hook Education Foundation, his time helping high school students write their college admissions essays, and other community involvement.
You can find Grandpa Frank's obituary
here.
Hazel and Vivian and I flew out to be there with my mom and to be there for Grandpa Frank's memorial on the 12th of July. The first flight, from Laramie to Denver, was great. Vivian liked looking out the window, and Hazel got a kick out of how bumpy it was in the wind in the little plane.
Hazel played "lunch" most of the flight, asking for pretend food and eating it. She at a lot of hot dogs.
After this, we had a flight from Denver to Dulles. We ended up sitting on the runway for an hour and a half before they would let us take off because of lightning, and that ate away almost all of our layover in Dulles. Dulles was a nightmare-- we came in on a big plane, but were leaving on a tiny plane and had to switch terminals even though we didn't switch airlines. In Dulles, the way the major signs point you ends up being a ridiculous journey with a stroller, up and down 6 or 7 elevators. It's also just really far.
By the time we got near the gate, the boards said that our flight from Dulles to Albany was closed, and there was no one left at the gate to tell us otherwise. The sign had switched over for a flight to somewhere in North Carolina, and to have missed it was so disheartening after rushing so far and long just to g et to the gate. We went to the customer service desk and we had just gotten to speak with a representative when I heard Hazel's name over the PA system.
It turned out that were holding the flight for us, and we actually managed to make it on that plane. The nicest flight attendant ever helped us get settled in, and was very reassuring. The people around us could have been grouchy with us, but they were all very kind. The woman in front of us played peek-a-boo with Vivi. I was so grateful to be on the ground in Albany, and to see my mom and my great-aunt Betsy waiting for us! Even our suitcase and car seats made it. We still had over an hour to drive to get to Red Hook, but both little girls were tired enough to sleep in the car, and I carried both of them into bed without anyone really waking up.
The next day was the memorial, and it was just a very hard day.